Feminist Pickup

There is a lucrative subculture and pseudo-science (pickup artists) teaching men how to pick up women. This has been widely criticized by feminists as sexist and misogynist. However, why is not feminists offering a better alternative? Why is not feminists teaching persons of all genders how to pick up persons of all genders? In fact there is already a subculture that can teach ethical pickup to people of all genders. This is the gay subculture. Thus, gays should be teaching online and offline pickup to every one of all genders and sexual orientations. I would go even further, gay-based ethical feminist pickup should be taught in schools.